The Pain Point
Love Sex and Trust create a feedback loop in relationships.
- When these three elements are working in harmony, you feel great.
- When these three elements aren’t working well, you don’t.
You and/or your clients may not have been taught how to make Love Sex Trust work well, and have become more experienced with suffering, coping or striving, than with love.
Leading to a prevalent incorrect assumption that relationships, dating, monogamy or marriage themselves isn’t that great.
As a result, you tell yourself not to get your hopes up, to be grateful with what you have, or that you’re better off alone.
The Pain Problem
Intergenerational trauma that hasn’t yet been resolved tends to be the origin of your own relationship suffering.
Adults base what to expect from and how to be in relationships from their first teachers, their parents. If parents aren’t happy, children absorb their pain, create expectations and beliefs, conscious and unconscious.
As an adult, you copy similar patterns based on limited awareness and tools. When these don’t work, you’re not good at learning from pain. You’re good at confirming negative beliefs.
Pain experienced in relationships prompts people to either self-isolate or seek help.
Those who self isolate generalize their feeling of pain into a negative world view, finding evidence for it as a foundational truth. Even though relying on negative and defensive beliefs, they often want to feel better.
Those who seek help also want to feel better, but only truly evolve if the help feels uniquely relatable to their specific pain point.
The problem is further compounded because:
- People assume suffering in relationships is normal.
- People who grow up around negative relationships often unconsciously repeat negative patterns.
- People want to be happy, but they don’t know how to change their situation.
- People want change, but don’t trust, can’t afford or don’t like helping professionals.
- People may trust, but don’t like reading long books and need smart action plans.
The Solution
Ecosystem includes:
- a 24 eBook Collection, written workbook style.
- 6 ebook Advanced Training eBook Set.
- Professional Package (graphics, about 60 pages).
- Paperback JOURNAL.
- Paperback of all titles within a developmental category.
- Archival prints available.
- Books can be read in 30 minutes or less, about 30 pages each.
- Includes topic specific Rate Your Emotional IQ quizzes to track progress.
Designed for:
Individuals, Couples, Supervisors, Teachers, Human Resources Training
- Entrepreneurs, supervisors, educators to use for training resources.
- Professionals; psychotherapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors, life coaches.
- DIY’ers for a less expensive approach than psychotherapy, or a medicine man in Peru.
- Clients to accelerate insights in their face to face counseling or medication monitoring.
- Partners making hard decisions to deepen or decide about relationships.
The Mission
To democratize access to high quality psychoeducation to decrease intergenerational trauma.
By deepening your relationship with your oldest friend, yourself, you can improve the relationship you’re in (at work, with partners, friends or family), avoid getting into a bad one, or leave safely.
The Process
Deepen and Decide
Our ecosystem of products, blending art and psychotherapy, help you make your true desires into concrete reality. Getting right to the point, we provide high quality theory, strategy, scripts and self assessments. You search within.
- Are you starting out or starting over? Motivated to do things well?
- Have you witnessed bad relationships in your childhood?
- Have you been manipulated, betrayed or cheated on? Ignored, abused?
- Have you been lonely, depressed, numb?
Use alone, with a partner, with employees, students or alongside a professional.
The Motivation
When you look into your own eyes in the mirror, what do you see?
What do I really, really want?
- Am I wanting to fulfill my potential?
- Am I curious about my own emotional IQ?
- Am I focused on selecting my ideal mate?
- Do I want to improve a relationship that’s struggling?
- Do we fight about sex and finances?
- Am I considering separation?
- Do I want to optimize results in counseling or supervision?
- Do I want to communicate better?
- Do I want to be a better lover?
- Do I want to feel more comfortable with sex?
- Do I, or your partner, have a difficult personality?
- Do I want to get past unresolved childhood trauma?
- Do I have abandonment issues that are frustrating?
- Am I worried about having an addiction?
- Do I need to track my moods, meds, dreams or partner?
- Am I grieving losses in my life?
- Am I healing from an affair or betrayal?
- Am I healing from divorce?
- Do I need help dealing with a difficult co-parent or family member?
All of these topics are covered in our 24 eBook Collection.
Advanced Training Set offers a deeper dive into client and professional dynamics.
Our Dedication
Not everyone can heal a broken heart. For those who have even an inkling of desire to do so, to take a courageous journey within, we are here for you.
