Love Sex and Trust create a feedback loop in relationships.
When these three elements are working in harmony, you feel great.
When these three elements aren’t working well, you don’t.
You and/or your clients may not have been taught how to make Love Sex Trust work well, and have become more experienced with suffering, coping or striving, than with love.
Leading to a prevalent incorrect assumption that relationships, dating, monogamy or marriage itself is inherently flawed.
As a result, you tell yourself not to get your hopes up, to be grateful with what you have, or that you’re better off alone.
Intergenerational trauma that hasn’t yet been resolved tends to be the origin of your own relationship suffering.
Adults base what to expect from and how to be in relationships from their first teachers, their parents. If parents aren’t happy, children absorb their pain, create expectations and beliefs, conscious and unconscious.
As an adult, you copy similar patterns based on limited awareness and tools. When these don’t work, you’re not good at learning from pain. You’re good at confirming negative beliefs.
Pain prompts people to either self-isolate or seek help.
Those who self isolate generalize their feeling of pain into a negative world view, finding evidence for it as a foundational truth. Even though relying on negative and defensive beliefs, they often want to feel better.
Those who seek help also want to feel better, but only truly evolve if the help feels uniquely relatable to their specific pain point.
To democratize access to high quality psychoeducation to decrease intergenerational trauma.
By deepening your relationship with your oldest friend, yourself, you can improve the relationship you’re in (at work, with partners, friends or family), avoid getting into a bad one, or leave safely.
Not everyone can heal a broken heart. For those who have even an inkling of desire to do so, to take a courageous journey within, we are here for you.